Salam to all...
At first, I have no idea on what to punch in my blog today, but suddenly; I felt like I want to share my point of view about my life and your life (generally).
Again, I made an observation towards people around me [I love making observation. I even use this technique as my 'learning method' too. =].
It seems that most (seriously, MOST) people are having a problem which is what I called 'depression'. I could see that when bad things happened in these people life; it seems that they being too panic, too stress, too emotional - like they don't know how to solve their problem in the right way.
What these kinds people always do is FIGHT, CRY, FIGHT, CRY, "LEAVE ME ALONE", "I HATE MY LIFE", "I'M TIRED OF BEING A GOOD PERSON", "I HATE YOU", "F**K PEOPLE AROUND ME", "NO ONE COULD UNDERSTAND ME", "WHO CARES? PEOPLE DOES'T CARE ABOUT ME. SO WHY SHOULD I CARE ABOUT THEM?", CUTTING WRIST, and other bad reactions.
You know what, these kinds of people is what I called "BULLSHITTERS". Yes. Why do I say so? Because they are think that they are good enough handling their life, they think they only one who deserve the best, they think that everybody is wrong; only they were right, they think only they have feelings; others don't. In other words, they totally act like they're a kindergarten kids.
Believe me; I've tried to talk to these people. When I asked them what's their problem, the answers usually like this, "Aku putus cinta.", "Orang benci aku", "Aku keseorangan", "Aku dipulaukan", "Aku lemah", and so much more. I've tried to tell them the best option for solving their problems. Do you know what they replied? This is what they say, "What do you know about life?"
These people ask me like I'm stupid. Now, this is my usual answer that makes them realized that they are the one who are stupid: "Since I was a kid, I used to being bullied. I was weak. The situation continues until I was in secondary school. People call me wuss, 'bapuk', and such. Yes, I know I'm not like them; they maybe look like they are the one who are great, strong, whatever. Some teachers might think that I'm nothing. They step on my head. I know I was a failure. I'm not smart. I was being cheated. Damn, I tell you, I hate my life at that moment. SO MANY PROBLEMS! I felt like I wanted to kill myself. Everything that happen in my life at that time - whether it was little or heavy problem, I tell you, it became a very heavy burden in my life. I was nearly gave up. God knows how I felt at that time. God, I felt like I wanted to kill those people."
"But then I realized, that GOD LOVES ME. HE gave me faith to live. HE gave me strength. HE gave me hope. HE gave me a BIG family that cares for each other. HE gave me best friends that always gave me support me with good advices and help. HE gave me talents. HE gave me teachers who always love and support me. HE showed me the JOY of my life. Do you know what I did to achieve all these bless? What I've done were HAVE A LOT OF PATIENCE, ALWAYS PRAY TO GOD THAT I WANT PEOPLE AROUND ME TO ALWAYS BE HAPPY AND SAFE, ALWAYS BE CONFIDENT IN WHAT I DO, ALWAYS DID GOOD DEEDS TO OTHER PEOPLE and NATURE, ALWAYS CALM, ALWAYS HAPPY, ALWAYS SEEK FOR HELP IF I HAVE PROBLEMS, ALWAYS SHOW YOUR LOVE TO EVERY SINGLE LIFE BEING, FORGIVE PEOPLE and ALWAYS REMEMBER MY DUTY OF BEING A PERSON IN THIS WORLD. With that, I know that I am an IMPORTANT PERSON."
I tell you people, if you say that I don't know about life; you are SO FREAKING WRONG.
Stop lying to yourself; Stop act like you are freaking good; Stop thinking that you are good enough to talk about love; Stop thinking that you are filthy rich and freaking beautiful; Stop thinking that you are smart enough; because there are other people who are SMARTER, BETTER and GREATER than you. Remember, you are not the only one who lives in this world.
p/s: Tak payah nak MENGEDIK la. Tak payah nak tunjuk kau tu bagus sangat. Tak payah la nak bersedih2 pasal putus2 cinta la, apa la. Jangan jadi BODOH. Ingat tugas kita sebagai manusia, ingat tugas kita sebagai khalifah di muka bumi ini. =)
